Monday, January 21, 2013

Tarbiyatul aulad: Where its begin?

Today i'm wore a so-called 'long blouse' a bit mimic kemeja labuh with long skirt or kain labuh that being wore wisely by people nowadays. So, with that dress i followed my parents for weekend-outing.

Upon looked at my dress my dad frowns and said:

"Kenapa pakai macam tu? pakailah jubah atau baju kurung.."

Then I replied

"Okla ni ayah, new fashion,hehe..nanti kalau pakai seluar ayah tak bagi pulak"

Ayah said:

"Ada identiti sendirilah, pakai baju kurung atau jubah, lebih elok.."

Silence.

Continue our journey.

Then in the car, I randomly asked my mum this question:

"Mak, senang tak nak besarkan kami semua?"

Mum replied:

"(ketawa kecil)..senang, mak bagi makanan, doakan untuk kamu semua, bagi pendidikan.."

Me either sniggle.

And out of sudden i remembered my mum story last time.

"Untuk semua anak mak, mak buat enam solat hajat setiap malam"

That's mum. I'm touched

Indeed I realized for every parents its ain't easy to grow up children with various attitude. Patience is the key.

Thank you mum and dad

Persuade us when we are crying
Always try to fulfill our desire
Pray a lot for us
Give us everything (too much to list out,until infinity)

Well, recalled (again and again):

Masa kami kecil-kecil dahulu dah pandai tengok tv, ayah kunci tv sebab nak kawal program tv yang kami tengok. Jadi kami akan tengok program tv biasanya kartun atau kisah-kisah nabi/al-quran. Ada jugakla cerekarama ke drama sikit-sikit (very rare)

Lepastu, ayah kunci juga telefon rumah. Bila dah besar dan ayah rasa kami memerlukan guna teknologi-teknologi tersebut baru ayah tak kawal ketat sangat.

Last aku pakai seluar jeans masa form 5, lepas tu ayah tegur dan tak benarkan, ayah kata pakai jeans ikut barat, kalau takde sebab untuk pakai jeans (nak buat kerja berat-berat,kerja buruh binaan ke), takyah pakai. Show our muslim dress.


I'm really agree with Malay proverb: "Melentur Buluh biarlah dari rebungnya"

And the answer for Tarbiyatul aulad: Where its begin?

-Bermula sejak ibu-ibu berada dalam perut ibunya :D

see this: Isteri solehah-Ibu solehah-anak solehah-isteri solehah-ibu solehah (it is much relate to each other)

Semoga bermanfaat! :)

3 comments:

BuTterfLyBuDdy said...

hebatnya~
moga kita sama2 menjadi muslimah solehah suatu hari nnti. Hargai jasa mak & ayah...
LOve this post very much!

pheeza said...

mase dlm perut lg mak da buat latihan2 maths..nti moga2 semua pandai maths..hehe

emi21081 said...

Koi tau